The Beautiful Struggle by Ta-Nehisi Coates
The Beautiful Struggle
by Ta-Nehisi Coates
There
was something so incredibly engaging about this story of Paul Coates and his
two sons. Now, Paul had many children but this memoir focuses on Bill and the
author, Ta-Nehisi. Brothers by two different mothers, often in the same house
and completely different. Their father was steadfast in their life but his
history caused him to be strict and in many ways an isolationist. An ex-member
of the Black Panther Party, “conscious” and not a believer in the holidays, his
children were constantly aware of their world and their place in it. Ta-Nehisi
and Bill were taking two separate paths. Bill was the one who was always quick
to fight and determined to be something. Ta-Nehisi was a slacker, not at all
prone to violence, simply trying to make it through his days. Fourth of July,
Thanksgiving and Christmas were not holidays they celebrated. Baltimore was
their home and the setting for this memoir about growing up the son of Paul
Coates.
Compelling
writing and an intriguing story set the pace for this memoir. Ta-Nehisi’s
description of life in Baltimore under the strict upbringing of his father was
extremely interesting, complicated and a memoir like I hadn’t experienced. I
loved that Coates took time to reflect on his father’s upbringing, his
different stints with women and his involvement with the Black Panther Party.
Taking the time to divulge that information really set the tone for the story
he was telling. Moments of self-reflection were the ones I found most
captivating. Coates is very well aware of his faults and those things that
caused him to fair so poorly in certain situations like school and girls. The
nature in which he reveals and discusses them shows an honesty that we can only
reveal later in life, when time has passed and the memories of who we were seep
out.
I
enjoyed this memoir. An easy read that dealt with father-son relationships in a
very honest, though sometimes grim light. I had really been looking forward to
reading this book and the focus wasn’t where I thought it was going to be, I
still found it really enjoyable. I give this book 4 out of 5 stars.
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